Religion has several contradictions?

well, I'm somewhat of a religious man, I grew up Roman Catholic, and learned quite a bit about my religion threw schooling, and We were always taught that innocence was forgiven, and injustices upon you would be dealt with, and the misguided will be saved, so one day I asked my Pastor, and he couldn't answer this, well, he couldn't answer this properly (as in with a direct answer) any who, Everyone says Suicide Bombers are going to hell, (in our religion) and FOR OBVIOUS reasons, Society is fearful of them, and they are hated, but, they honestly believe that what their doing is right, and they've been corrupted all their life, and are usually pawns, So in Gods eyes, does he not have pity on their souls? If they don't know any better, isn't god suppose to save them? just wondering, (for a debate) Like if a young boy is told by his father to kill a servant, and he does not know the repercussion or sin he's committing, is he not saved? if he were to die the next day, without time to repent and confess etc